The relationship analysis connects two Astrakey profiles if both people agree.
Understanding instead of evaluating
Many relationship apps give you a grade. They tell whether two people are compatible and reduce something alive to a percentage. Astrakey deliberately doesn't do this. Relationship analysis does not ask whether your relationship is right or wrong, and it does not promise any outcome for your future together. Instead, it shows where resonance arises between you, where friction repeats itself and which topics you make visible together. This is more helpful than judgment because it brings you into conversation rather than leading to a label. It is neither couples therapy nor a conflict report and does not say who is right. A relationship is not a fixed size, but something that you create. That's why Astrakey provides observations and questions that you can work with, not an assessment that you just have to confirm or reject. We deliberately speak neutrally about two people and not about a specific type of relationship, because the same attitude applies to every close connection. The value lies in better understanding of each other, not in a number.
- No pass rating and no percentage. - No couples therapy and no conflict assessment. - Resonance, friction and common themes instead of judgment. - Observations and questions to work with.
Consent is the basis
A relationship analysis processes sensitive information about two people. That's why at Astrakey it always begins with clear, mutual consent. Both people have their own profile and expressly agree that their profiles will be linked for a joint analysis. Nobody is evaluated secretly and nobody is playfully measured in the background. Consent can be revoked at any time. If one person withdraws it, the joint evaluation ends. Joint evaluations that have already been calculated will then no longer be used and are no longer applicable for both sides, and you retain control over exporting or deleting the content before it disappears. What remains after a revocation are your two individual profiles, not the shared reading. Both see transparently which data is included in the analysis and how it can be exported or deleted. This clarity is not a bureaucratic accessory, but part of the actual product. A relationship thrives on trust, and an analysis that would violate that trust would have no value. Astrakey therefore treats both people's data with the same respect with which you treat your relationship.
- Always mutual, express consent. - Can be revoked at any time, then the joint analysis ends and is no longer valid for both parties. - No secret or playful evaluation by third parties.
Start with your own Astrakey profile.
Start for free, check the response and decide later whether you want to use more depth.
What the analysis makes visible
Relationship analysis combines multiple perspectives into a common picture. She takes your individual profiles, looks at resonance points where you move similarly or complement each other well, and points of friction where your patterns regularly clash. It shows areas of development, i.e. topics on which you can grow together, and it makes areas of tension visible in which two poles work at the same time. As in the individual profile, what counts here is not a loud individual statement, but rather what recurs across several independent system families. This creates a differentiated picture instead of a dramatic headline. Astrakey suggests discussion impulses for many points that you can use to look at a topic together. These impulses are invitations, not instructions. They help to talk about things that often go unsaid in everyday life and give your exchange a calm, curious direction.
- Resonance, friction and areas of development clearly separated. - Relationship areas of tension instead of supposed mistakes. - Conversational impulses as an invitation, not as an instruction.
Friction is not a defect
If two profiles contradict each other in one place, that is not a red flag. Friction is part of every close relationship and often shows exactly the places where the most understanding is possible. Astrakey therefore does not treat such points as a deficiency, but rather as an area of tension in which two different needs are justified at the same time. One person might want closeness, another might want space. One seeks speed, the other calm. Both sides have a good reason, and the problem is rarely the person, but rather the unspoken expectation. If you can name these patterns, they lose their sharpness. Astrakey does not provide any external solution and no assessment of who is right. It makes the dynamics visible and leaves the interpretation up to you. It is precisely this attitude that distinguishes relationship analysis from offers that work with compatibility and fate. You'll get better questions, not judgment, about your relationship.
- Friction is part of proximity and is not a defect. - Two legitimate needs instead of right and wrong. - Astrakey shows the dynamics, you keep the interpretation.
Which relationships it is suitable for
Relationship analysis isn't just for romantic relationships. It can help wherever two people share a close relationship and want to understand each other better. This can be a partnership, a close friendship, a family relationship or an important connection at the transition into a new phase of life. Of course, we consider all types of relationships, including non-monogamous and queer constellations, and we consciously formulate it in a neutral manner without assuming a specific model of relationship. In a constellation with several people, Astrakey looks at two profiles in relation to each other, always only with the consent of the people involved. It is crucial that everyone involved participates voluntarily and has their own profile. For many people, the concrete benefits here are even more tangible than with an individual profile, because relationships can be experienced constantly in everyday life. You recognize your recurring misunderstandings, understand why certain conversations always go the same way, and gain a calmer perspective on your differences. Astrakey does not promise a better relationship or rescue. It offers a more nuanced language that allows you to decide for yourself what you want to change, accept or simply understand better.
- For partnership, friendship, family and close connections. - Non-monogamous and queer constellations explicitly taken into account, neutral language. - All those involved are voluntary and have their own profile. - More understanding in everyday life, no guarantee for the relationship.
How a relationship analysis works
The path to relationship analysis is simple and remains within your control at all times. First, each person starts their own profile. This is possible for free and shows you the first core topics individually. After that, one person invites the other to connect the profiles for a joint analysis, and the second person explicitly agrees. Only then does Astrakey read both profiles together and generate the joint evaluation with resonance, friction, areas of development and conversation impulses. You can read the results at your leisure, delve deeper into individual topics and use the companion if you have any questions, without making any statements about the other person without their consent. If one of you ends the connection, the joint analysis also ends. This means that the relationship analysis remains a common tool that you can open consciously and close again at any time.
- Step by step: own profile, invitation, consent, analysis. - Joint evaluation only after mutual consent. - Connection can be terminated at any time.
How the method works in the background
Frequently asked questions
What does the relationship analysis show?
It shows where resonance and friction arise between two people and what areas of development and conversation impulses result from this. She doesn't judge whether you're compatible.
Do I need the other person's consent?
Yes. A joint analysis only occurs if both people have their own profile and expressly agree. Consent can be revoked at any time.
Can I secretly analyze someone?
No. Astrakey will not evaluate a second person without their consent. Without mutual consent there is no joint analysis.
Will Astrakey tell me whether my relationship has a future?
No. Astrakey makes no prediction or guarantee of a relationship. It helps to better understand your patterns and dynamics.
Is friction a bad sign?
No. Friction is part of close relationships. Astrakey treats it as an area of tension with two legitimate sides, not as a mistake.
Does this only work for couples?
No. It is also suitable for friendships, family and other close relationships and explicitly considers non-monogamous and queer constellations, provided everyone involved participates voluntarily.
What happens to our data?
Both see what data flows in and can export or delete. If one person's consent ends, the joint evaluation ends.
What happens when you revoke a joint evaluation that has already been created?
It will no longer be used and no longer applies to both parties. You can export or delete content beforehand. Both of your individual profiles remain unaffected.
Is relationship analysis couples counseling?
No. It is a reflection tool and does not replace therapeutic or couples therapy advice. It is also not a conflict report and does not say who is right.
Start with your own Astrakey profile.
Start for free, check the response and decide later whether you want to use more depth.